Thursday, 4 March 2010

S Is For Stress!

Don't get married if you know whats good for you!
oh my god i keep getting so stressed out, if its not over one thing its over another, family's fighting me and Matt both sticking up for our sides and our parents adding people to the list to invite who we don't know......ARRRR!

I'm not even having a hen do because i just cant be bothered with it all, i don't really drink so don't want to go clubbing, do like spa days and all that cr*p, don't like pub crawls so that's a no and i hate all these hen do bits like 'L' plates and devil horns and stuff.
The only think i would prob do is go out for a meal and even then it wouldn't be very many people coz then it would turn in to that hen night everyone else has......and i wouldn't ever have a stripper!
But then again i might change my mind.....

Matt is going to London for his stag do, its all he has talked about, he don't care really about the wedding and hasn't done anything at all for it really its just all about his stag do, he is on the phone to his mates every day about it, grrr why do men have it so easy? i just wish he put as much in to the wedding as he is with the flipping stag do.

On another note i went to papworth yesterday after being off i.v's for 4 weeks and my weight is the same so that's some good news but my LF has dropped 7% from 44% to 37%! I'm really not happy about this as i have been working so hard to do all my pill and nebs and phyiso and it looks like its just for nothing, it feels like i have just been wasting my time.
The Dr didn't seem to bothered about it and said because i feel well in myself and are not really breathless that maybe it isn't a true % and that if I'm really not happy about it that i can come back in 2 weeks and see what its like then and if its the same or lower i can have some i.v's.
I would feel alot better having some just to get my LF back up and then maybe it will stay up now were getting out of the cold months and closer to summer!
Also if i start them on the 17th march i will be done by the last day of the month and then have April free and then I'm booked in to have some i.v's 3 weeks before the wedding so that I'm in tip top shape for it.

Also want to say a big get well soon to my friend Vic who is in hospital on her 4th week of i.v's, keep your chin up hun xxx


Tori said...

Thank you my love :)

Why don't you go into London too and maybe go see a West End Show? With a few select people.

Gemma said...

I told you it was stressful! Its not the wedding its other people! I ended up inviting people I didnt know either! Its all worth it in the end though honest!
I agree with Vic, go on a trip somewhere. What ever you fancy. I had 2 hen nights and one was going to see a show in london. But it could be a theme park or anything you like. You should def have a hen night, its YOUR night and you can do what you want!

Tinypoppet said...

Ah yes, rediculously stressful... but I promise, it's worth it :)

Maybe choose just your closest girls (family, friends, anyone) who will respect what you want to do and go for a quiet meal? Or have them round for a meal, chat and giggles? That way it's in your house and you've got full control ;)

Boys are rubbish when it comes to weddings - it somehow all ends up being the girls job!

Good luck with it all xx

Chantelle said...

thanks girls im going to see how i feel after my 2 weeks of i.v's next wednesday and then might do something as like my mum said it might be coz im just not feeling well.
ment to be going out for a meal for matts birthday tonight but i really dont wanna lol :(